In the USA, Wendy, didn't stop at looking in her collection, when she went out shopping, she actually found one the right size. She bought one for herself and sent the other one to me.
I was so touched by her kindness, but she didn't stop there. When the envelope arrived, it had more treasures inside, this beautifully crocheted doily and a wonderful heart. I'd seen these hearts on her blog when she made them, they were all so lovely. Now, I am a happy owner of one.
Thank you to everyone that looked for me, and thank you, Wendy, for your generosity.